Planning a goodbye for your pet in Southlake
By our estimate, about 11,500 households in Southlake have a dog or a cat, and roughly 960 of those pets die each year. Every one of those families decides how to say goodbye. Here's how to plan yours.
- Small, personal goodbyes that fit your family
- Questions to ask any provider or cemetery
- No pressure, no packages you don't need
Southlake, Texas
What planning a pet funeral in Southlake is like
Children in Southlake are often involved in busy schedules, and a pet's death may be the first time they've faced loss. Let them take part in planning, whether that's choosing an urn, making a photo book, or deciding where a memorial stone goes. Teachers and school counselors can be told gently so they understand if a child seems off for a few days.
Some families here hold a small, planned farewell: a gathering in the garden, a short reading, and a chance for children and grandparents to say goodbye together. Others choose a quiet visit to the vet and nothing more. Witnessed cremations and private viewings are offered by some providers and not others, and usually cost extra, so raise them on the first call.
Working dogs, barn cats and old ponies are part of family life around Southlake, and their farewells often happen where they worked: by the barn, at the edge of the field or on the porch step. A few words from whoever worked alongside them and a quiet minute with the other animals nearby honours the job they did.
About 31,175 people live in Southlake, which makes it the 111th-largest of the 325 Texas communities we cover. The nearest larger centre is Irving, about 14 miles (22 km) away, which is where some providers serving Southlake are based.
Nearby, we also have local pages for Grapevine (3 miles), Colleyville (4 miles) and Westlake (5 miles), which can help if your vet or the provider you prefer is based there.
Our estimate
11,500
Southlake: dog- or cat-owning households, our estimate
How we calculated this
31,175 ÷ 2.5 = 12,470 households; × 53% (dog) + 39% (cat) = 11,500. Homes are counted once however many pets they keep.
Our estimate
960
Estimated dog and cat losses in Southlake each year
How we calculated this
11,500 dog/cat-owning homes ÷ average lifespan (dog: 12.69 yrs + cat: 11.18 yrs) ≈ 960 a year. The real figure is unlikely to be lower.
53%[1]
53% of US households own a dog, which is about 71 million households.
12.69 years[2]
US dogs have an average life expectancy at birth of 12.69 years.
39%[3]
39% of US households own a cat, which is about 53 million households.
11.18 years[4]
US cats seen at Banfield hospitals have an average life expectancy at birth of 11.18 years.
Where these figures come from: Montoya et al. 2023, Frontiers in Veterinary Science and American Pet Products Association (APPA) 2025 State of the Industry.
Funeral traditions in Texas and your pet
Cremation now accounts for about 55.7%[5] of deaths in Texas, but burial still has deep roots. You may find the family split, with older relatives wanting a grave and younger ones preferring ashes at home. Burying the ashes after cremation often settles it: there's a place to visit, and the ceremony can wait for good weather.
That Texas rate is a human one, published by NFDA 2024 Cremation & Burial Report state projections (via Occasional Sage) (2024). We quote it for Southlake only as a pointer to how families here already think about cremation.
Southlake weather and your pet's farewell
Driving your pet to the vet or crematory in June, July, August and September takes a little planning. Cool the car before you carry your pet out, lay them on a towel in the footwell or cargo area away from the windows, and go straight there. With highs near 96°F in Southlake, a parked car heats up within minutes, so skip any stops on the way.
Candles, flowers and printed photos all suffer in Southlake's summer heat, with highs near 96°F. For an outdoor ceremony, use battery candles or lanterns, keep flowers in water until the last minute and print photos on card rather than paper. Small practical choices like these keep the farewell calm instead of frantic.
What a pet funeral costs in Southlake
If cost is on your mind, you're in good company: in a survey of more than 2,000 US owners, 61% said the cost of body care worried them [6]. Cemetery burial is less alarming for smaller pets. Across five posted US price lists, the median whole-body burial for a small pet, plot and opening included, is ~$350[7] by our estimate. Ask cemeteries near Southlake for a cremains plot price too.
The full price table by product is on our Texas page, and the services page explains what each option includes.
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Memorial budget planner
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What Texas allows for burial and scattering
Your city, county or local council can set tighter rules than Texas as a whole, especially for small suburban lots and land near drinking water supplies. A short call to the local environmental health or planning office settles it. The regional picture follows.
The official Texas local government directory lists every county and city office, which is the quickest way to find who to ask in Southlake.
The rules that apply across Texas (home burial, scattering and who oversees pet cremation) are summarized on our Texas page. Southlake may add its own conditions, so check with the city or county before digging.
Planning a farewell in Southlake, step by step
- Find a small box and soft bedding, such as a shoebox lined with a cloth or some of their own nesting material.
- Choose between cremation and a garden grave. A very small animal produces only a trace of ash; ask the crematory how it's kept apart from other pets' and what container it's returned in.
- For a garden grave, choose ground you're likely to still own in years to come, look up what's allowed locally, and decide on a marker, whether a potted plant or a flat stone.
- Invite whoever looked after them, and that can be just a parent and a child. Small creatures leave surprisingly large holes.
- Say a few words or read a note, and finish by placing a flower, or a little of the food they loved most, on the box.
- Clear the cage, hutch or tank slowly over a few days, rather than the same afternoon, so the room doesn't feel suddenly empty.
Marking the loss, now and later
Southlake calendars fill up fast with school, sports, work and travel, and losing a pet can bring all of it to a sudden stop. Give yourself permission to pause and skip a few commitments. Veterinary clinics across the area can point you toward pet loss counselors or groups in the Metroplex, and a therapist can help, especially after a sudden or traumatic loss.
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Free tools to help you plan
Memorial budget planner
Add up cremation, urn, keepsakes and a farewell so the total holds no surprises.
Farewell & memorial service planner
Build a simple goodbye: who, where, readings, rituals and a checklist.
Aftercare options compared
Compare private, communal and water cremation with burial on cost, timing and what comes home.
Questions people ask
Is cremation common in Texas?
For people, yes: about 55.7%[5] of Texas deaths end in cremation, according to NFDA 2024 Cremation & Burial Report state projections (via Occasional Sage) (2024). Nobody publishes the same figure for pets, but in our experience pet choices in Southlake follow the human pattern closely, so cremation is the default most families here start from.
How many pet owners live in Southlake?
By our estimate, about 11,500 households in Southlake have at least one dog or cat, and around 960 are lost each year. We calculate this from the city's population of about 31,175, the average household size and national ownership and lifespan figures, so treat it as a floor rather than an exact count.
Which nearby towns can I compare with Southlake?
The closest communities we cover are Grapevine (about 3 miles), Colleyville (about 4 miles) and Westlake (about 5 miles). Providers based in those places often serve Southlake too. Ask each one for a written total that includes collection, so the distance is priced in.
Does the Southlake climate change what I should do first?
Only the timing. In August, with highs near 96°F, cool the body and book collection the same day. Winters here are mild enough that burial or scattering is possible in any month.
Do people hold funerals for hamsters, birds and other small pets?
Plenty do. A small pet's farewell needs little more than a lined box, a few words and a flower, and children often need it more than adults expect. Choose a garden grave where local rules allow and you expect to stay, or ask a crematory about individual cremation for small animals, since the amount of ash is tiny. Mark the spot with a stone or a pot plant.
Can my pet's ashes be buried with me one day?
Sometimes. It depends on the cemetery's rules and local law, and many human cemeteries still don't allow animal remains in a grave. Some do, and a few pet cemeteries accept human ashes: about 800 people's ashes lie beside their pets at America's oldest pet cemetery [8]. Store the urn sealed and clearly named, and put your wishes in writing for your family.
Sources and our estimates
- [1] 53% of US households own a dog, which is about 71 million households. American Pet Products Association (APPA) 2025 State of the Industry, 2025.
- [2] US dogs have an average life expectancy at birth of 12.69 years. Montoya et al. 2023, Frontiers in Veterinary Science - Banfield Pet Hospital life expectancy tables (13.3 million dogs, 2.4 million cats, 2013-2019), 2023.
- [3] 39% of US households own a cat, which is about 53 million households. American Pet Products Association (APPA) 2025 State of the Industry, 2025.
- [4] US cats seen at Banfield hospitals have an average life expectancy at birth of 11.18 years. Montoya et al. 2023, Frontiers in Veterinary Science - Banfield Pet Hospital life expectancy tables (13.3 million dogs, 2.4 million cats, 2013-2019), 2023.
- [5] The NFDA projected Texas's cremation rate at 55.7% for 2024. NFDA 2024 Cremation & Burial Report state projections (via Occasional Sage), 2024.
- [6] 61% of US owners in the Cooney survey rated the cost of after-death body care as a concern (27.9% concerned, 33.1% very concerned). Cooney, Kogan, Brooks, Ellis - Pet Owners' Expectations for Pet End-of-Life Support and After-Death Body Care, Topics in Companion Animal Medicine (2020), 2020.
- [7] Across five posted US pet-cemetery price lists, the median whole-body burial for a small pet, including plot and opening/closing, was about $350. Our estimate: median of [Rainier $150 plot incl. first burial, Cedar Bend $290, Forest $350, Great River $750, Precious Memories $1,500]. How we calculate.
- [8] The cremated remains of about 800 people are buried alongside their pets at Hartsdale Pet Cemetery. VOA News – America's oldest pet cemetery, 2024.
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