Saying goodbye to your pet in Brookings, your way
By our estimate, about 9,350 households in Brookings have a dog or a cat, and roughly 780 of those pets die each year. Every one of those families decides how to say goodbye. Here's how to plan yours.
- Real costs, not guesswork
- Ideas for including children gently
- Options that serve Brookings by email
Brookings, South Dakota
Pet farewells in Brookings: the local picture
Losing a pet in a college town can be isolating when you are far from home. SDSU's counseling services, pet-loss chat lines and national hotlines are all options. Roommates who have never cared for an animal may not grasp the loss; find people who have, and give yourself permission to grieve as long as you need, even through finals week.
For an aging pet in Brookings, a winter emergency is the scenario worth planning for. Know which aftercare service covers the town, whether it will come out during snow, and roughly what it charges. Talk with your veterinarian about timing as well, and ask whether a home visit for euthanasia is possible if you want your pet to stay in familiar surroundings.
If you live outside Brookings itself, on a farm or a long rural road, ask any provider whether they'll collect from your address and what the mileage adds. Some families bring their pet to the vet or the crematory to keep the cost down, and hold the farewell at home first, with the car ready and a favorite blanket for the journey.
Brookings is home to about 25,355 people, the 4th-largest of the 10 South Dakota communities we cover. Some of the providers who serve Brookings are based about 52 miles away in Sioux Falls, the nearest larger centre, so collection times reflect that drive.
Nearby, we also have local pages for Watertown (46 miles), Sioux Falls (53 miles, a larger centre) and Huron (70 miles), which can help if your vet or the provider you prefer is based there.
Our estimate
9,350
Brookings: dog- or cat-owning households, our estimate
How we calculated this
25,355 ÷ 2.5 = 10,142 households; × 53% (dog) + 39% (cat) = 9,350. Homes are counted once however many pets they keep.
Our estimate
780
Estimated dog and cat losses in Brookings each year
How we calculated this
9,350 dog/cat-owning homes ÷ average lifespan (dog: 12.69 yrs + cat: 11.18 yrs) ≈ 780 a year. A floor, not a ceiling.
53%[1]
53% of US households own a dog, which is about 71 million households.
12.69 years[2]
US dogs have an average life expectancy at birth of 12.69 years.
39%[3]
39% of US households own a cat, which is about 53 million households.
11.18 years[4]
US cats seen at Banfield hospitals have an average life expectancy at birth of 11.18 years.
Where these figures come from: Montoya et al. 2023, Frontiers in Veterinary Science and American Pet Products Association (APPA) 2025 State of the Industry.
How South Dakota thinks about funerals and cremation
In South Dakota, about 53.2%[5] of people are cremated, a share that has been climbing. Pet farewells are changing in the same way. More families now hold a small ceremony at home or in a crematory's farewell room, and fewer dig a grave in the yard, especially in suburbs where lots are small or rented.
Source for the South Dakota number: NFDA 2024 Cremation & Burial Report state projections (via Occasional Sage) (2024). Nobody publishes a pet cremation rate for Brookings, so the human figure is the best local signal available.
When the weather shapes the goodbye
Home vet visits still happen through Brookings winters, but icy steps and early darkness slow everyone down. Clear and grit the path, leave the porch light on and book a daytime slot in January if you can. Warm the room well beforehand too; an old pet who is shivering is harder to settle.
Snow and ice across January, February, March, November and December can delay collection and make roads unsafe for relatives driving in. If your pet is old or very ill and a winter storm is forecast, it's reasonable to ask your vet now how a home goodbye and collection would work in bad weather, rather than on the night.
What a pet funeral costs in Brookings
Pet cemetery burial costs about three times a private cremation in the US, by our estimate (3.2x[6]), because a plot, opening the grave and long-term care are all involved. That's why many families in Brookings choose cremation followed by a small burial of the ashes, which keeps the graveside ceremony at a fraction of the price.
We keep the detailed South Dakota price table on one page so it stays current: see South Dakota prices.
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What South Dakota allows for burial and scattering
Your city, county or local council can set tighter rules than South Dakota as a whole, especially for small suburban lots and land near drinking water supplies. A short call to the local environmental health or planning office settles it. The regional picture follows.
To find your county or city office in South Dakota, start with the official South Dakota local government directory.
We keep South Dakota's burial and scattering rules in one place: the South Dakota rules summary. Before a home burial in Brookings, also ask the city whether local ordinances add anything.
Your checklist for the first day
- Tell your child soon, somewhere quiet, in plain words: use the pet's name and the word died, and avoid softer phrases like 'went away' or 'went to sleep'.
- Let them choose whether to see their pet ahead of the burial or pickup. Some children find that looking answers things they couldn't have asked out loud.
- Offer choices rather than jobs: which blanket, how to decorate the box, or whether to draw a card that goes with their pet.
- Keep the ceremony to about ten minutes and let them say something, or nothing, without anyone correcting them.
- Expect questions later, often at bedtime, and answer them honestly and briefly.
- Let their teacher or childminder know, so a quiet or tearful day makes sense to the adults around them.
The weeks and months after the goodbye
A farewell in Brookings might happen at home on a snowy evening, with candles and a few photos, or in spring beside a freshly planted tree. Some families invite a friend or two from campus or church to share memories and photos. For a more formal goodbye, services in the Sioux Falls area can often set up a private room for a last visit.
read our guides and latest articles, Our services overview lays out every option side by side, or see how other readers answered in our polls, the planning tools turn your pet's details into figures. More local pages: Mitchell, Aberdeen, Sioux Falls and Watertown, the South Dakota overview and every city in the United States.
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Free tools to help you plan
Memorial budget planner
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Farewell & memorial service planner
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Aftercare options compared
Compare private, communal and water cremation with burial on cost, timing and what comes home.
Questions people ask
How does Brookings's weather affect pet aftercare?
July is the hottest month in Brookings, with average highs around 81°F, so prompt collection matters most then. Average lows drop below freezing in January, February, March, November and December, which can make digging a grave hard until spring.
Will I have to travel to Sioux Falls to arrange things?
Not usually. Providers based in Sioux Falls (roughly 52 miles from Brookings) collect from here as a matter of routine, and the paperwork is done by email or phone. If you want to be present for a witnessed cremation, that is when the drive matters.
Why does the Brookings page quote a human cremation rate?
Because it is the best local signal we have. NFDA 2024 Cremation & Burial Report state projections (via Occasional Sage) (2024) reports about 53.2%[5] of South Dakota residents are cremated. There is no official pet equivalent, and inventing one would be worse than quoting a real, clearly labelled number.
Is Brookings big enough to have several pet aftercare providers?
Probably, on the numbers. By our estimate about 9,350 Brookings households keep a dog or cat and around 780 lose one each year, which is enough steady demand to support more than one provider. We derive that from population (about 25,355), household size and national ownership and lifespan figures.
How much is a pet cemetery plot near Brookings?
It varies more than almost any other pet funeral cost. Across 15 US pet cemeteries, starting burial prices had a median of ~$600[8], while a typical full burial runs $1,500–$2,000[9] once opening, closing and a marker are added. Burying ashes in a cemetery plot usually costs less than a whole-body burial. Ask cemeteries near Brookings for the plot, opening fee and care fees separately.
What do you say at a pet's funeral?
Something true and specific: their name, one habit that made everyone laugh and one thing you'll miss. A short poem, a prayer or a favorite song works if words are hard. Many families ask each person to share one memory. Two or three minutes of speaking is plenty, and nobody expects polish.
Sources and our estimates
- [1] 53% of US households own a dog, which is about 71 million households. American Pet Products Association (APPA) 2025 State of the Industry, 2025.
- [2] US dogs have an average life expectancy at birth of 12.69 years. Montoya et al. 2023, Frontiers in Veterinary Science - Banfield Pet Hospital life expectancy tables (13.3 million dogs, 2.4 million cats, 2013-2019), 2023.
- [3] 39% of US households own a cat, which is about 53 million households. American Pet Products Association (APPA) 2025 State of the Industry, 2025.
- [4] US cats seen at Banfield hospitals have an average life expectancy at birth of 11.18 years. Montoya et al. 2023, Frontiers in Veterinary Science - Banfield Pet Hospital life expectancy tables (13.3 million dogs, 2.4 million cats, 2013-2019), 2023.
- [5] The NFDA projected South Dakota's cremation rate at 53.2% for 2024. NFDA 2024 Cremation & Burial Report state projections (via Occasional Sage), 2024.
- [6] US pet cemetery burial for a dog costs about 3.2x a private cremation ($831 vs $260 national averages). Our estimate: 831 / 260 = 3.20. How we calculate.
- [7] Posted surcharges to witness or view a pet cremation range from $25 to $350, with a median of about $125 across four data points. Our estimate: median of [$25 guide low, $100 guide high, $150 NC provider, $350 VA provider]. How we calculate.
- [8] Across 15 US pet cemeteries' posted starting burial prices, the median entry price was about $600. Our estimate: median of starting prices [400,185,300,550,575,99,660.44,730,740,850,850,800,850,600,600]. How we calculate.
- [9] Furever Memorials' review of 15 US pet cemeteries puts the typical pet burial at $1,500–$2,000. Furever Memorials – Pet Burial Cost (15 cemeteries), 2025.
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