Planning a goodbye for your pet in Redmond
About 14,000 Redmond households share their home with a dog or cat, by our estimate. When the time comes, a small farewell helps. This page covers where to hold it, what it costs and who to call.
- Real costs, not guesswork
- Ideas for including children gently
- Options that serve Redmond by email
Redmond, Oregon
A goodbye that fits life in Redmond
Redmond families sometimes pick a clear summer evening for a remembrance, when the sun sets late behind the Cascades, or in early fall before the first snow. Friends, a shared story or two and a candle in a lantern make the occasion. Children might paint a small rock, choose a plant for the yard or make a card to keep with the ashes.
Many Redmond households are new to Central Oregon, and a pet's death can land hard when family lives in another state. Neighbors, coworkers and friends from church or the gym often step in. Before collection, gathering at home for a few quiet minutes, maybe with the pet's bed and a photo nearby, lets the household part with the animal at its own pace.
Home burial is more common in towns like Redmond, especially where families have land. A graveside farewell in your own garden or field can be one of the most personal goodbyes there is. Check the depth and distance-from-water rules for Oregon, pick a spot away from wells and drains, and think about whether you'll stay on the property long term.
Redmond's population is around 38,547, the 15th-largest of the 34 Oregon communities we cover.
Our pages for Bend (15 miles, a larger centre), Lebanon (87 miles) and Springfield (90 miles) describe the same choices from those towns' point of view, and the providers overlap, so a quote from one often covers Redmond as well.
Our estimate
14,000
Redmond: dog- or cat-owning households, our estimate
How we calculated this
38,547 ÷ 2.5 = 15,419 households; × 53% (dog) + 39% (cat) = 14,000. Homes are counted once however many pets they keep.
Our estimate
1,200
dog and cat deaths per year in Redmond, our estimate
How we calculated this
14,000 dog/cat-owning homes ÷ average lifespan (dog: 12.69 yrs + cat: 11.18 yrs) ≈ 1,200 a year. Treat it as a minimum.
53%[1]
53% of US households own a dog, which is about 71 million households.
12.69 years[2]
US dogs have an average life expectancy at birth of 12.69 years.
39%[3]
39% of US households own a cat, which is about 53 million households.
11.18 years[4]
US cats seen at Banfield hospitals have an average life expectancy at birth of 11.18 years.
The numbers above come from Montoya et al. 2023, Frontiers in Veterinary Science and American Pet Products Association (APPA) 2025 State of the Industry, if you'd like to read the original sources.
Funeral traditions in Oregon and your pet
About 77.7%[5] of people in Oregon are cremated, so most families here have been to a cremation service and know how one feels. That familiarity carries over to pets: a viewing before cremation, a few words said and ashes brought home is a pattern people recognise. It also means crematories are well established, and a farewell room or witnessed cremation is easier to find.
Source for the Oregon number: Direct Cremate (citing CANA) (2024). Nobody publishes a pet cremation rate for Redmond, so the human figure is the best local signal available.
When the weather shapes the goodbye
Seasons change the timing of a farewell more than its shape. Many families in Redmond hold the goodbye indoors on the day and move the outdoor part, such as burying ashes, planting a tree or scattering on a favorite walk, to a calmer day with kinder weather. There's no deadline on ashes.
Pet farewell prices for Redmond families
If cost is on your mind, you're in good company: in a survey of more than 2,000 US owners, 61% said the cost of body care worried them [6]. Cemetery burial is less alarming for smaller pets. Across five posted US price lists, the median whole-body burial for a small pet, plot and opening included, is ~$350[7] by our estimate. Ask cemeteries near Redmond for a cremains plot price too.
For a line-by-line price table, see the Oregon overview; for what's included in each option, see our services.
Free tool
Memorial budget planner
Add up cremation, urn, keepsakes and a farewell so the total holds no surprises.
Permissions to check in Oregon before the ceremony
A grave in the garden stays with the house when you sell it, which is the question few people ask at the graveside. Before you bury, think about where you'll be living in five or ten years, then check the Oregon notes below.
The official Oregon local government directory lists every county and city office, which is the quickest way to find who to ask in Redmond.
The rules that apply across Oregon (home burial, scattering and who oversees pet cremation) are summarized on our Oregon page. Redmond may add its own conditions, so check with the city or county before digging.
From first call to farewell: the steps
- Choose a day while your pet still has good moments, book the home visit, and settle the aftercare plan in the same phone call.
- Fill the days before with small favorites: an unhurried walk, a sunny spot on the floor, the food they're normally not allowed.
- Decide who will hold your pet and who would rather wait in another room. Both are loving choices, and nobody should be talked into either.
- Set out the blanket you're happy to send with them, with any drawing, note or toy that should go into the cremation or grave too.
- When the vet has finished, take as long as you need. The collection can wait an hour; ask them to step outside if you want privacy.
- Walk out to the car or van with your pet should you want to. Teams often carry pets on a basket or stretcher and are glad to let you take one end.
Marking the loss, now and later
The loss of an animal can leave a surprisingly large hole in daily life, especially in a place where so much time is spent outdoors together. Central Oregon has grief therapists, and national pet-loss support lines through veterinary colleges answer calls at no charge. Online groups meet in the evenings. Mourning openly is healthy, and there is no timetable for it.
See what each option includes on our services page, run the numbers with the free planning tools, there are guides for the big decisions and articles for the details, or compare your instinct with the poll results. More local pages: Eugene, Hillsboro, Gresham and Portland, the Oregon overview and every city in the United States.
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Free tools to help you plan
Memorial budget planner
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Farewell & memorial service planner
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Aftercare options compared
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Questions people ask
Roughly how many pets die in Redmond each year?
Our estimate is around 1,200. It comes from Redmond's population (about 38,547), the average household size, the share of homes with a dog or cat (about 14,000 households here) and the average lifespan. It is arithmetic, not a count, so read it as a rough floor.
Why does the Redmond page quote a human cremation rate?
Because it is the best local signal we have. Direct Cremate (citing CANA) (2024) reports about 77.7%[5] of Oregon residents are cremated. There is no official pet equivalent, and inventing one would be worse than quoting a real, clearly labelled number.
Which nearby towns can I compare with Redmond?
The closest communities we cover are Bend (about 15 miles), Lebanon (about 87 miles) and Springfield (about 90 miles). Providers based in those places often serve Redmond too. Ask each one for a written total that includes collection, so the distance is priced in.
Should young children come to a pet's farewell?
Usually yes, if they want to, with a simple role and a way to step out. Use plain words like 'died' rather than 'put to sleep', explain what they'll see, and keep it short. In a large RSPCA survey, 93.4%[9] of parents wanted better guidance on helping children through pet loss, so you're far from alone in wondering.
What can I send with my pet for cremation or burial?
Most crematories let a blanket, a letter, a drawing or a small soft toy go with your pet. Many ask you to remove metal tags, plastic toys and rubber collars, which don't burn cleanly, so keep those as keepsakes instead. For a garden grave, choose natural materials such as cotton, wool or untreated wood. If something must come back to you, say so before the handover, not after.
Can my pet's ashes be buried with me one day?
Sometimes. It depends on the cemetery's rules and local law, and many human cemeteries still don't allow animal remains in a grave. Some do, and a few pet cemeteries accept human ashes: about 800 people's ashes lie beside their pets at America's oldest pet cemetery [10]. Store the urn sealed and clearly named, and put your wishes in writing for your family.
Sources and our estimates
- [1] 53% of US households own a dog, which is about 71 million households. American Pet Products Association (APPA) 2025 State of the Industry, 2025.
- [2] US dogs have an average life expectancy at birth of 12.69 years. Montoya et al. 2023, Frontiers in Veterinary Science - Banfield Pet Hospital life expectancy tables (13.3 million dogs, 2.4 million cats, 2013-2019), 2023.
- [3] 39% of US households own a cat, which is about 53 million households. American Pet Products Association (APPA) 2025 State of the Industry, 2025.
- [4] US cats seen at Banfield hospitals have an average life expectancy at birth of 11.18 years. Montoya et al. 2023, Frontiers in Veterinary Science - Banfield Pet Hospital life expectancy tables (13.3 million dogs, 2.4 million cats, 2013-2019), 2023.
- [5] Oregon had a 77.7% cremation rate in 2024, among the highest in the US. Direct Cremate (citing CANA), 2024.
- [6] 61% of US owners in the Cooney survey rated the cost of after-death body care as a concern (27.9% concerned, 33.1% very concerned). Cooney, Kogan, Brooks, Ellis - Pet Owners' Expectations for Pet End-of-Life Support and After-Death Body Care, Topics in Companion Animal Medicine (2020), 2020.
- [7] Across five posted US pet-cemetery price lists, the median whole-body burial for a small pet, including plot and opening/closing, was about $350. Our estimate: median of [Rainier $150 plot incl. first burial, Cedar Bend $290, Forest $350, Great River $750, Precious Memories $1,500]. How we calculate.
- [8] Posted surcharges to witness or view a pet cremation range from $25 to $350, with a median of about $125 across four data points. Our estimate: median of [$25 guide low, $100 guide high, $150 NC provider, $350 VA provider]. How we calculate.
- [9] 93.4% of parents in the RSPCA survey wanted better guidance on helping children through pet loss. RSPCA — Pet Loss Survey Results, 2026.
- [10] The cremated remains of about 800 people are buried alongside their pets at Hartsdale Pet Cemetery. VOA News – America's oldest pet cemetery, 2024.
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