A proper farewell for your pet in Hackensack
By our estimate, about 17,000 households in Hackensack have a dog or a cat, and roughly 1,400 of those pets die each year. Every one of those families decides how to say goodbye. Here's how to plan yours.
- Home, garden or viewing-room farewells
- Witnessed cremation and cemetery burial explained
- Plan it all within a day if you need to
Hackensack, New Jersey
What planning a pet funeral in Hackensack is like
Grief after a pet's death can feel out of proportion to others, but it isn't. The daily routines, the greeting at the door, the sound of a bowl being nudged across the floor, are what you miss most. Support groups meet across North Jersey, and national pet loss hotlines answer by phone. Talking with others who've lost an animal often helps more than people expect.
In a busy small city, a loss often lands in a week with no room to grieve: court dates, hospital shifts, school runs. It's fine to make simple arrangements first and plan a memorial later. Ashes can be kept until you have a free weekend to scatter them or hold a small gathering with the people who knew your pet.
In a smaller place like Hackensack, a pet farewell usually happens at home or on the family's own land, because that's where the pet lived and where there's space. The vet often comes out for the goodbye, and cremation happens at a crematory in a larger centre such as Yonkers. That means the farewell and the handover are yours to shape, without a venue to book.
Hackensack is home to about 46,380 people, the 19th-largest of the 58 New Jersey communities we cover. The nearest larger centre is Yonkers, about 10 miles (16 km) away, which is where some providers serving Hackensack are based.
Nearby, we also have local pages for Lodi (2 miles), Garfield (3 miles) and Bergenfield (3 miles), which can help if your vet or the provider you prefer is based there.
Our estimate
17,000
Hackensack: dog- or cat-owning households, our estimate
How we calculated this
46,380 ÷ 2.5 = 18,552 households; × 53% (dog) + 39% (cat) = 17,000. A household with several pets counts once.
Our estimate
1,400
Hackensack families who lose a dog or cat each year (estimate)
How we calculated this
17,000 dog/cat-owning homes ÷ average lifespan (dog: 12.69 yrs + cat: 11.18 yrs) ≈ 1,400 a year. A floor, not a ceiling.
53%[1]
53% of US households own a dog, which is about 71 million households.
12.69 years[2]
US dogs have an average life expectancy at birth of 12.69 years.
39%[3]
39% of US households own a cat, which is about 53 million households.
11.18 years[4]
US cats seen at Banfield hospitals have an average life expectancy at birth of 11.18 years.
If a number here surprises you, the primary material is Montoya et al. 2023, Frontiers in Veterinary Science and American Pet Products Association (APPA) 2025 State of the Industry; we only apply it to this.
Faith, tradition and pet goodbyes in New Jersey
When a place splits its funerals between burial and cremation, as New Jersey does with about 56.5%[5] cremated, local providers usually offer both, and the choice often comes down to one question: do you want a place to visit, or something to keep close? A grave fixes the memorial to one spot; ashes can move house with you.
The New Jersey percentage above is from NFDA 2024 Cremation & Burial Report state projections (via Occasional Sage) (2024) and refers to human funerals. Treat it as context for Hackensack, not as a count of pets.
Planning an outdoor goodbye in Hackensack's climate
Gentle weather in Hackensack suits the kind of farewell pets would have enjoyed: a picnic on a favorite field, a slow walk along a river path, a barbecue with the neighbours who threw the ball back over the fence. Bring a folding table, a framed photo and a water bowl for any dog guests, and let it be sociable.
Even in mild Hackensack weather, a pet's body shouldn't be left outside or in a car while you wait for people to arrive. Keep them indoors, somewhere cool and away from direct sun, with a blanket beneath. If the wait will be longer than a day, ask the vet or crematory to hold your pet and plan a viewing.
What a pet funeral costs in Hackensack
Pet cemetery burial costs about three times a private cremation in the US, by our estimate (3.2x[6]), because a plot, opening the grave and long-term care are all involved. That's why many families in Hackensack choose cremation followed by a small burial of the ashes, which keeps the graveside ceremony at a fraction of the price.
We keep the detailed New Jersey price table on one page so it stays current: see New Jersey prices.
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Memorial budget planner
Add up cremation, urn, keepsakes and a farewell so the total holds no surprises.
What you can and can't do in New Jersey
Most of what happens at a pet funeral is up to you. The exceptions are home burial, which New Jersey and your city or county may regulate, and scattering ashes in parks or on land you don't own, which usually needs the owner's permission. The key points are below.
Not sure which office covers Hackensack? The New Jersey local government directory is the official list.
The New Jersey page sets out who oversees pet cremation and what the state says about burial and scattering. Hackensack's own bylaws can sit on top of that, so ask before you dig.
Your checklist for the first day
- Choose a day while your pet still has good moments, book the home visit, and settle the aftercare plan in the same phone call.
- Fill the days before with small favorites: an unhurried walk, a sunny spot on the floor, the food they're normally not allowed.
- Decide who will hold your pet and who would rather wait in another room. Staying and stepping out are equally loving, and no one should be pushed either way.
- Set out the blanket you're happy to send with them, plus any letter, drawing or toy you'd like cremated or buried alongside.
- When the vet has finished, take as long as you need. The collection can wait an hour; ask them to step outside if you want privacy.
- Walk out to the car or van with your pet should you want to. Teams often carry pets on a basket or stretcher and are glad to let you take one end.
The weeks and months after the goodbye
A goodbye doesn't need a venue. In Hackensack, many families say farewell at home or in a quiet room at their vet's office, where staff can give you as much time as you need. If you want the animal at home for a last evening, ask about home euthanasia services covering Bergen County, and ask the provider whether they can collect afterward.
or compare your instinct with the poll results, there are guides for the big decisions and articles for the details, run the numbers with the free planning tools, See what each option includes on our services page. If you live between Hackensack and Jersey City, Paterson, Clifton and Elizabeth, either page applies. Every other community in New Jersey, and all of the United States, is listed too.
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Free tools to help you plan
Memorial budget planner
Add up cremation, urn, keepsakes and a farewell so the total holds no surprises.
Farewell & memorial service planner
Build a simple goodbye: who, where, readings, rituals and a checklist.
Aftercare options compared
Compare private, communal and water cremation with burial on cost, timing and what comes home.
Questions people ask
Roughly how many pets die in Hackensack each year?
Our estimate is around 1,400. It comes from Hackensack's population (about 46,380), the average household size, the share of homes with a dog or cat (about 17,000 households here) and the average lifespan. It is arithmetic, not a count, so read it as a rough floor.
When is the hardest time of year to arrange a burial in Hackensack?
January and February: average lows are below freezing then, and frozen ground makes a home grave slow or impossible until it thaws. The other pressure point is July, when highs around 85°F mean a body needs cooling and collecting quickly.
Will I have to travel to Yonkers to arrange things?
Not usually. Providers based in Yonkers (roughly 10 miles from Hackensack) collect from here as a matter of routine, and the paperwork is done by email or phone. If you want to be present for a witnessed cremation, that is when the drive matters.
Which nearby towns can I compare with Hackensack?
The closest communities we cover are Lodi (about 2 miles), Garfield (about 3 miles) and Bergenfield (about 3 miles). Providers based in those places often serve Hackensack too. Ask each one for a written total that includes collection, so the distance is priced in.
How soon should a pet funeral happen?
There's no fixed rule. Many families hold a short farewell on the day, before collection or burial, and a larger gathering later when the ashes come home. If people need time to travel, ask the vet or crematory to hold your pet in a cold room and book a viewing there when everyone arrives.
Should my other pets see the body before the farewell?
Many owners let them, and it rarely does harm. Give your other dog or cat a few calm minutes to sniff and walk away in their own time. Some show little interest; others seem to search the house less afterwards. There's no evidence it's required, so if it feels wrong for your household, skip it. Keep routines steady for the animals left behind in the days that follow.
Sources and our estimates
- [1] 53% of US households own a dog, which is about 71 million households. American Pet Products Association (APPA) 2025 State of the Industry, 2025.
- [2] US dogs have an average life expectancy at birth of 12.69 years. Montoya et al. 2023, Frontiers in Veterinary Science - Banfield Pet Hospital life expectancy tables (13.3 million dogs, 2.4 million cats, 2013-2019), 2023.
- [3] 39% of US households own a cat, which is about 53 million households. American Pet Products Association (APPA) 2025 State of the Industry, 2025.
- [4] US cats seen at Banfield hospitals have an average life expectancy at birth of 11.18 years. Montoya et al. 2023, Frontiers in Veterinary Science - Banfield Pet Hospital life expectancy tables (13.3 million dogs, 2.4 million cats, 2013-2019), 2023.
- [5] The NFDA projected New Jersey's cremation rate at 56.5% for 2024. NFDA 2024 Cremation & Burial Report state projections (via Occasional Sage), 2024.
- [6] US pet cemetery burial for a dog costs about 3.2x a private cremation ($831 vs $260 national averages). Our estimate: 831 / 260 = 3.20. How we calculate.
- [7] Across 15 US pet cemeteries' posted starting burial prices, the median entry price was about $600. Our estimate: median of starting prices [400,185,300,550,575,99,660.44,730,740,850,850,800,850,600,600]. How we calculate.
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