Planning a goodbye for your pet in Ames
About 25,000 Ames households share their home with a dog or cat, by our estimate. When the time comes, a small farewell helps. This page covers where to hold it, what it costs and who to call.
- Real costs, not guesswork
- Ideas for including children gently
- Options that serve Ames by email
Ames, Iowa
How families in Ames say goodbye to a pet
For students, losing a pet can come at the worst moment, in the middle of exams or far from family. Iowa State's student counseling service will see someone grieving an animal, and pet-loss hotlines answer around the clock. Tell a professor or supervisor what happened if you need a few days; many people find them more understanding than expected, and a short absence is rarely questioned.
Ames has a veterinary teaching hospital as well as local clinics, so families here have more choice than in many Iowa towns about how a goodbye happens: at the clinic, in a quiet room, or at home with a vet who travels. Ask ahead which your practice offers, and whether family members can stay throughout. Knowing the plan in advance spares you decisions on a hard day.
In Ames, the church hall, the community centre or a friendly café may be the natural place to gather after a pet's farewell, especially if half the town knew your dog from walks down the main street. A tea urn, a table of photos and an hour on a weekday afternoon is often all it takes.
Ames is home to about 68,220 people, the 8th-largest of the 27 Iowa communities we cover. Des Moines, roughly 30 miles off, is the closest larger centre, and a share of the providers who cover Ames run from there.
For a second opinion on price, Ankeny (20 miles), Johnston (24 miles) and Altoona (27 miles) are close enough that their providers cover Ames routinely. Two written quotes tell you more than any price list.
Our estimate
25,000
How many dog- or cat-owning households Ames has (estimate)
How we calculated this
68,220 ÷ 2.5 = 27,288 households; × 53% (dog) + 39% (cat) = 25,000. A household with several pets counts once.
Our estimate
2,100
Estimated dog and cat losses in Ames each year
How we calculated this
25,000 dog/cat-owning homes ÷ average lifespan (dog: 12.69 yrs + cat: 11.18 yrs) ≈ 2,100 a year. Treat it as a minimum.
53%[1]
53% of US households own a dog, which is about 71 million households.
12.69 years[2]
US dogs have an average life expectancy at birth of 12.69 years.
39%[3]
39% of US households own a cat, which is about 53 million households.
11.18 years[4]
US cats seen at Banfield hospitals have an average life expectancy at birth of 11.18 years.
None of the figures on this this page are ours alone: they rest on American Pet Products Association (APPA) 2025 State of the Industry and Montoya et al. 2023, Frontiers in Veterinary Science.
Funeral traditions in Iowa and your pet
Some pet cemeteries also run a crematory, which suits Iowa, with cremation at roughly 63.6%[5] and burial still common. If there's one near you, you can see a grave site and ask about cremation in the same visit, then decide with both options in front of you rather than on the phone.
NFDA 2024 Cremation & Burial Report state projections (via Occasional Sage) (2024) is where the Iowa figure comes from. It counts people; we use it because attitudes to cremating a pet in Ames tend to follow attitudes to cremation generally.
Seasons, timing and ceremonies in Ames
Ames winters are cold, with average lows at or below freezing in January, February, March, November and December. Frozen ground can make a garden burial impossible for weeks, which is one reason many local families choose cremation in winter and hold a graveside ceremony for the ashes in spring. It gives the farewell a second moment everyone can plan for.
Winter farewells in Ames often move indoors, and that can be lovely: a fire or candles, a blanket, your pet on their own bed and the family close. If you want a symbolic outdoor moment, a single lantern placed in the snow at the spot where the grave or tree will go in spring is simple and memorable.
What a pet funeral costs in Ames
If cost is on your mind, you're in good company: in a survey of more than 2,000 US owners, 61% said the cost of body care worried them [6]. Cemetery burial is less alarming for smaller pets. Across five posted US price lists, the median whole-body burial for a small pet, plot and opening included, is ~$350[7] by our estimate. Ask cemeteries near Ames for a cremains plot price too.
The full price table by product is on our Iowa page, and the services page explains what each option includes.
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Memorial budget planner
Add up cremation, urn, keepsakes and a farewell so the total holds no surprises.
What you can and can't do in Iowa
Your city, county or local council can set tighter rules than Iowa as a whole, especially for small suburban lots and land near drinking water supplies. A short call to the local environmental health or planning office settles it. The regional picture follows.
The official Iowa local government directory lists every county and city office, which is the quickest way to find who to ask in Ames.
The Iowa page sets out who oversees pet cremation and what the state says about burial and scattering. Ames's own bylaws can sit on top of that, so ask before you dig.
What to do first, and what can wait
- Decide who needs to be there. Pulling a few close people together within a day is manageable; the wider group can be invited to something later.
- Pick the place: cemetery, crematory farewell room, the route of a favorite walk, the garden, or simply home.
- Check anything that needs permission, such as scattering in a park or burying on land you don't own.
- Plan a loose running order: gather, open, share memories, a reading or song, a ritual, the farewell.
- Arrange the handover or burial for straight after the ceremony, so nobody waits around.
- Look after yourself afterwards. Eat something, let people help, and put the lead away only when you're ready.
After the farewell: ways to keep the memory close
Some Ames families gather in the living room with a candle, a few photos and stories about the pet's life. Others go to a quiet spot along one of the town's greenbelt trails and spend a few minutes there. Children often find comfort in making a card, planting bulbs in the fall or helping pick the memorial, and they remember being included.
try the free planning tools, or see how other readers answered in our polls, Compare every option on our services page, there are guides for the big decisions and articles for the details. Close to Ames we also cover Iowa City, Davenport, Ankeny and Sioux City; the full list for Iowa and for the United States is a click away.
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Free tools to help you plan
Memorial budget planner
Add up cremation, urn, keepsakes and a farewell so the total holds no surprises.
Farewell & memorial service planner
Build a simple goodbye: who, where, readings, rituals and a checklist.
Aftercare options compared
Compare private, communal and water cremation with burial on cost, timing and what comes home.
Questions people ask
When is the hardest time of year to arrange a burial in Ames?
January, February, March, November and December: average lows are below freezing then, and frozen ground makes a home grave slow or impossible until it thaws. The other pressure point is July, when highs around 84°F mean a body needs cooling and collecting quickly.
Will I have to travel to Des Moines to arrange things?
Not usually. Providers based in Des Moines (roughly 30 miles from Ames) collect from here as a matter of routine, and the paperwork is done by email or phone. If you want to be present for a witnessed cremation, that is when the drive matters.
Which nearby towns can I compare with Ames?
The closest communities we cover are Ankeny (about 20 miles), Johnston (about 24 miles) and Altoona (about 27 miles). Providers based in those places often serve Ames too. Ask each one for a written total that includes collection, so the distance is priced in.
Why does the Ames page quote a human cremation rate?
Because it is the best local signal we have. NFDA 2024 Cremation & Burial Report state projections (via Occasional Sage) (2024) reports about 63.6%[5] of Iowa residents are cremated. There is no official pet equivalent, and inventing one would be worse than quoting a real, clearly labelled number.
Can I have a religious blessing at my pet's farewell?
Yes. Many clergy will say a short blessing for an animal if asked, at home or by a grave, and some pet cemeteries can suggest a celebrant. Start with your own faith community. In Japan, some pet memorial parks include chanting by a monk at a witnessed cremation, which shows how naturally faith and pet funerals can sit together.
Can I combine a farewell with water cremation near Ames?
Yes. Water cremation, or aquamation, still returns ashes, so you can hold a viewing before or a celebration of life afterwards just as you would with flame cremation. Fewer providers offer it, and it may mean a longer drive from Ames. Ask early, and expect a slightly longer wait for the ashes.
Sources and our estimates
- [1] 53% of US households own a dog, which is about 71 million households. American Pet Products Association (APPA) 2025 State of the Industry, 2025.
- [2] US dogs have an average life expectancy at birth of 12.69 years. Montoya et al. 2023, Frontiers in Veterinary Science - Banfield Pet Hospital life expectancy tables (13.3 million dogs, 2.4 million cats, 2013-2019), 2023.
- [3] 39% of US households own a cat, which is about 53 million households. American Pet Products Association (APPA) 2025 State of the Industry, 2025.
- [4] US cats seen at Banfield hospitals have an average life expectancy at birth of 11.18 years. Montoya et al. 2023, Frontiers in Veterinary Science - Banfield Pet Hospital life expectancy tables (13.3 million dogs, 2.4 million cats, 2013-2019), 2023.
- [5] The NFDA projected Iowa's cremation rate at 63.6% for 2024. NFDA 2024 Cremation & Burial Report state projections (via Occasional Sage), 2024.
- [6] 61% of US owners in the Cooney survey rated the cost of after-death body care as a concern (27.9% concerned, 33.1% very concerned). Cooney, Kogan, Brooks, Ellis - Pet Owners' Expectations for Pet End-of-Life Support and After-Death Body Care, Topics in Companion Animal Medicine (2020), 2020.
- [7] Across five posted US pet-cemetery price lists, the median whole-body burial for a small pet, including plot and opening/closing, was about $350. Our estimate: median of [Rainier $150 plot incl. first burial, Cedar Bend $290, Forest $350, Great River $750, Precious Memories $1,500]. How we calculate.
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